I’m an engineer by training, even though I don’t currently work as an engineer. What I’ve realized though, is that once you think like an engineer, you always think like an engineer. Everything looks like a problem to be solved, or a system to be optimized.
That’s probably why my outfit photos are potentially boring on one hand (unposed, same front-right-left views over and over) but very consistent and easy to compare on the other. I’ve found that taking a photo of my outfit gives me an even more objective way of viewing it than looking in a mirror. Not that the way it looks in the photo is everything. When I’m deciding how I feel about an outfit, I also take into account how it moves, how it feels on my body, and how I feel emotionally when I’m wearing it. All of this hyper-awareness of my outfits has led me to a wardrobe that I am extremely happy with. It’s filled with clothes, colors and fabrics that feel totally me.
What I have noticed recently, though, is that some pieces just don’t seem to go together the way they theoretically should. Others feel ok one time, and a bit ‘off’ the next. So I decided to take an engineering approach to which silhouettes work on me and which don’t, and also figure out the whys behind what I learned. The main thing I’ve noticed is that what works on one person, may not work on another. So if you’re thinking about doing something similar, remember to focus on the approach here, not the actual insights I had about what works on me (unless you happen to have the exact same body type as I do.)
OK – so let’s get started. How does an engineer figure out what silhouettes work for her?
The first thing you need to know about the system you’re testing, is what the inputs are.
In this case, my main input is my own body — my proportions, my body type, my frame size. So let’s start with that:
Here’s what we have:
- Slender build
- Broad shoulders — my shoulders are actually the widest point of my body
- Somewhat defined waist — by measurement, I’m usually classified as either a triangle, because of my shoulders, or a rectangle because there isn’t a huge difference between my waist and hip measurement. But I do have a waist!
- Not much in the hips or thigh department — it’s pretty much a straight shot from my hips down
- Proportions — if I go by Imogen Lamport’s guidance, I am a bit long in the chest, short-waisted, short-thighed, and long-calved (vs. ‘standard’ proportions.) Her guidance for those with shorter bodies and longer legs hits right on the money for several of the things I noted later in this exercise.
If you do this exercise, just be objective and non-judgmental. This is a datapoint, not a reason to bemoan anything about the way you look. This is what you have to work with we’re going to treat it like a paper doll, dressing it in multiple ways to figure out what works.
For this exercise, I wanted to play around with three tops — 1) a hi-lo unstructured top (my #memade Linn-like top), 2) a cropped boxy top (my #memade Georgia-like top), and 3) a longer boxy top with 3/4 sleeves (my #memade T Top-like top.)
There were three specific pants silhouettes I wanted to try: 1) something looser than skinny, but not totally wide-leg (Elizabeth Suzanne Clyde work pants — I know these are too short, but they work for this exercise), 2) wide-leg, high-waisted pants (my #memade linen pants), and 3) skinnies (my tried and true Old Navy skinnies.)
Questions / hypotheses
Really well-designed experiments start with specific questions that need to be answered. I had a few:
- Why do sometimes feel like my skinnies are not the right proportion in an outfit, even though I’m following the loose-over-skinny formula that usually works well for me?
- Why does it look so cool on other IG’ers when they tuck or partial tuck into high-waisted pants but when I try it, I feel like a stuffed goose?
- Why does it look ok if I define my waist when I’m wearing jumpsuits, but not with other outfits (back to question 2 regarding tucking)? How can I show-off the efforts of my workouts if I can’t tuck?
Experiments and results
With three tops and three bottoms, I had nine possible combinations to test, plus various tucking experiments to try. I went through all of the possible combinations and here is what I learned:
Figuring out the skinnies
Here’s the thing with skinny pants. Most of the time I wear mine, I’m totally comfortable and feel sleek and stylish. However, if the top I’m wearing is too short to cover my rear end, I sometimes get the feeling, looking at my outfit photos, that the proportions just aren’t right. There’s too much of a contrast between the boxy top and the skinny bottom. I look like a fluffy cat who’s bottom half has been dipped in water. The thing is, I see other women pulling off this look with no issues whatsoever. I think the secret is the hips and thighs. I don’t have any. So when they’re totally exposed, it just doesn’t look quite right. Whereas a woman with more to offer there looks curvy, womanly, and in-proportion.
Here’s a front and side-view of me in the skinnies with all three tops:
I think all three tops look ok from the front, but from the side, the Georgia especially does not work. The Linn is iffy, which is probably why I feel ok sometimes, and other times not. And the T Top works fine. A top even longer than that (like my cashmere and linen tunics) work with no issues at all.
What I learned: If I’m going to wear skinnies, the top has to hit past my bottom or lower. The Linn is borderline, so I guess I’ll determine by my mood that day whether to go with that combo or not.
Figuring out the tuck
It’s funny I did the Imogen Lamport exercise for this write-up as she very clearly points out, in her guidance to those with my body type, that tucking doesn’t really work, unless you blouse out the top over the waist band to make the top look longer. The point is, if you are short-waisted, like I am, “your rib cage most likely sits almost directly on top of your pelvis with little gap in between, this is why you don’t have a defined waist, as there is no space to create one.” And it doesn’t work to create a horizontal line there as it visually highlights the disproportionate shortness.
This is clearly demonstrated every time I tried to tuck, whether full or partial. I seriously thought maybe I just don’t know how to tuck (which, to be fair, I probably don’t.) But especially with these wider, boxy tops, tucking into high-waist pants creates a very unflattering horizontal line on me and gives me that stuffed-goose feeling:
LOL – pretty ridiculous looking. And lest you think it only looks funny because the Clydes are too short, here’s how it looks with the linen pants:
Still not good, even with just a partial tuck on the Linn.
The only possibility that didn’t look totally ridiculous was a one-sided partial tuck like the middle photo here:
What I learned: In general, tucking doesn’t work for me (although I have successfully tucked traditionally cut blouses into pencil skirts.) It especially doesn’t work with high-waisted pants and boxier tops. I’ll leave most of the tucking to the professionals on IG!
Figuring out how to show off the results of my workouts without tucking or skinnies
Here’s the thing: I’m proud of my body. It’s 46 years old, has borne two children, and I’d like to flaunt the results of working out and eating well. While I love being a part of the #potatosacksisterhood, I also occasionally like to wear something that shows off my waist or booty.
For more insight here, I looked to outfits that have done this for me:
I think my jumpsuits work because 1) there’s nothing being tucked, leaving the waist area with no extra material mucking things up, 2) it’s the same color top and bottom, so there’s no harsh horizontal line being created:
Also, the bottoms of my jumpsuits have a fuller cut, which balances out the slim waist. This leads to my next point:
Cropped boxy tops with fuller bottoms
While the cropped boxy top + skinny doesn’t work for me, pants with a fuller cut can work:
Those Clydes look good from the side, but aren’t working that well from the front. Between that and the too-short length, I won’t be keeping these, but will be thinking about sewing something similar that fits me better.
The Harem look
This is not a look I have figured out how to translate from loungewear / poolside to public life. It’s one I find very flattering for my body shape though:
As Imogen mentions in her very helpful post, the best pants rise for me is mid or low. This mid-rise look, where my waist is visible, would be perfect if I were in the 1001 and Arabian nights. As it is, I guess it’s just a poolside look.
What about high-waisted pants for me?
I’ll keep my high-waisted pants and just not show-off the high-waisted part. If I’m honest, I don’t love elastic waisted pants that hit there anyway. I often fold the elastic over and wear it around my hips anyway. I’ll just have to admire the cropped top / high-waist look on other IG’ers.
Oh, the one exception here might be a knotted shirt. Somehow, this works way better for me than tucking:
What I learned: I can show off my waist and / or booty by sticking with jumpsuits and cropped boxy tops with fuller-cut pants. (I could also do blouses with pencil skirts and sheath dresses too, if I ever decide to dress more traditionally again.)
Trying it for yourself
This has been an incredibly useful and insightful exercise for me! If you’d like to give it a try, here are a few tips:
- Come up with a few questions you’ve always wondered about you and your clothes. Why does X look good on others, but not me? Why does Y always make me feel like a goddess? Etc.
- Take stock of your body type and proportions. I find Imogen Lamport’s guidance here really helpful. She has a ton of helpful articles on Inside Out Style blog.
- Gather up some clothing items that will help you answer these questions. I like that the items I picked were all similarly colored so that factor didn’t confuse the issues I was trying to solve for.
- Take pictures! This is really important. You need to take pictures and then look at them afterwards. Figure out that self-timer or voice activation on your phone and just do it. They don’t need to be perfect, and you obviously don’t have to post them anywhere public, but do take them!
- Use an app like Layout to place pictures side by side. It will help you test hypotheses if you can compare things directly. What works about this? Is it the pants length? What if you try a different pants length? What if you look at it side-by-side with another cut?
- Summarize what you learned. Write it down somewhere for reference. Maybe I’m just getting old, but if I don’t write things down, they’re gone from my mind within a week
- After you come up with your outfit tips for yourself, don’t be afraid to throw them out the window if something you wear makes you feel amazing! The ‘right’ outfit shouldn’t be about what other people thing is right or wrong, only what looks and feels good to YOU!
Have fun and let me know how it goes!